Lifestyle Definitions

The following terms and definitions are common in the swing lifestyle. Naturally, some of these lifestyle definitions will overlap into personals and other unrelated areas and some may have completely different meanings.

Term/AcronymDefinition/Meaning
69Just like the number suggest, the two people are lying with their heads lined up with their partners genitals for oral stimulation.
420Code for Marijuana use. Often used as "420 friendly".
ABSAdult Book Store
AC/DCNot the band. Like the electric flow, this can mean bisexual - taking it both ways.
AFFAdult Friend Finder web-site.
AIDSAcquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome. Caused by HIV.
airtightAll orifices filled at the same - mouth, vagina and anus.
AnilingusStimulation of the anus by use of tongue and mouth. Also known as rimming.
ArseWestern European slang for the buttocks.
ASPAdult Service Provider
Ass PlaySexual behaviors involving the anus.
ATFAll Time Favorite
ATMAss To Mouth. Transferring penis from anal penetration to oral.
Aunt FloCommon reference for a woman's period.
AVSAdult Video Store
Bare BackSex without a condom. Often abbreviated "BB" or shown without a space "Bareback".
BBBJBare Back Blow Job. Fellatio without a condom.
BBCBig Black Cock.
BBFSBare Back Full Swap/Service
BBWBig Beautiful Woman. Usually very large, well endowed woman.
BCDBehind Closed Doors
BDSMBondage, Discipline, Sex and Masochism.
BFBoy Friend
BiBisexual. Person that enjoys sex with members of their own and opposite gender.
Bi-CuriousSomeone that is interested or open to same gender sexual contact.
BJBlow Job
BLSBall Licking and Sucking
BottomPerson in the submissive role in a dominant relationship. Person receiving the sexual act in a same gender relations.
BukkakeFetish where multiple men ejaculate onto a single recipient, often on the face.
Butt PlugA sex toy that is inserted into the anus. It may be used for decoration, personal pleasure or to prepare for anal sex.
BWCBig White Cock
Camel toeWhen women wear tight clothes, the anatomical features of her labia creates an image similar to the toes of a camel.
CatcherSome who bottoms or is submissive.
CBJCovered (condom) Blow Job
CDCross Dresser
CGCow Girl sexual position with girl on top face to face
ChickenhawkThe gay male equivalent of a cougar, where the older man prefers to have sex with significantly younger male partners.
CIMCum In Mouth
CIPCum in Pussy. Also known as a creampie.
CISSomeone whose sexual identity matches their gender at birth. (Not bi, gay or transgender)
CLCraigsList
CleanSomeone that is drug and disease free.
CMDCarpet Matches Drapes. Color of pubic hair is same as hair on head. Indicates natural hair color.
CockringA small ring usually made of leather, metal or flexible plastic/rubber that is placed at the base of the penis and sometimes testicles to restrict blood from escaping the penis. Helps with maintaining an erection in some men.
CornholeTerm used for the anus.
CougarAn older woman that seeks sex with much younger men.
Cream pieEjaculation inside the vagina or other orifice, without use of a condom.
CropWhip-like tool used for pain and sound to enhance sexual pleasure in BDSM.
CTSCamelToe Slide. The act of rubbing a woman's labia against a penis without penetration.
CumSlang for male ejaculate.
Slang for natural vaginal lubrication.
Cum SlutA person who enjoys receiving cum, typically in the mouth and swallowing.
Cum SwapThe act of capture the ejaculate in an orifice and transfer to another person.
CummingReaching orgasm
CunnilingusOral sex perfomed on a female's genitals.
CutUsed to identify that a penis has been circumcised. Naturally, an uncircumcised penis is Uncut.
CybersexTypically done via webcam or cell phone camera, the act of fantasizing and mutual self-masturbation over the internet. Similar to phone sex.
Daisy ChainGroup sex where each person is connected to the next sexually, creating a chain or a train.
DarkroomA location that has little to no light for anonymous sexual activities.
DATYDining At The Y. Cunnilingus.
DDFDrug and Disease Free.
DDGDrop Dead Gorgeous
Deep ThroatOrally taking a penis such that it enters the recipient's throat.
DFKDeep French Kissing
DildoA sex toy, often shaped like a penis, for inserting into orifices for pleasure.
DIYDo It Yourself. Masturbation.
DoggingHaving sex in public places.
DomDominant, sometimes specific to male.
DommeFemale Dominant.
DPDouble Penetration. Two penises in the same person, usually one in the vagina and one anal at the same time.
DryAlso known as V-safe. A man that has had a vasectomy, resulting in no sperm within the semen.
DSDoggie Style. Sexual position where the receiver is on hands and knees like a dog.
DTDeep Throat.
DTEDown To Earth
DTFDown To Fuck
DVPDouble Vaginal Penetration. Two penises in the same vagina at the same time.
EDErectile Dysfunction. The inability to obtain or maintain an erection.
EdgingThe act of sexual play where repeatedly stopping just before orgasm, in an effort to prolong the sensation.
EnglishSpanked or masochism
ExhibitionistPerson that likes to be watched naked and/or having sex.
FacialMale ejaculate on the face of a sexual partner.
FBSMFull Body Sensual Massage.
FelchingThe act of sucking semen out of an orifice where it was deposited.
FetishStrong desire for a certain body part, most commonly foot.
FFM / FMFA threesome with two females and one male.
FSFull Service. Full Swap.
Fuck BuddySomeone that is used regularly for sex, but are not in a relation otherwise.
Full SwapCouples that allow full sex, including intercourse, with swapped partners.
FWBFriends with Benefits
GangbangSexual intercourse with multiple partners in one session. Typically multiple men to one woman.
GBFGay Black Female
GBMGay Black Male
GFEGirl Friend Experience
GGGonnorreia girl. Someone that carries sexually transmitted disease.
GloryholeHole in the wall between booths or rooms, meant for having sexual relations through the hole.
GloveCondom
GreekAnal sex
GSGolden Shower. urination in sexual activities.
GSMG-Spot Massage
GWFGay White Female
GWMGay White Male
Half-mastWhen a penis is not fully erect. Also referred to as semi.
HatCondom
HIVHuman Immunodeficiency Virus. Transferable through sex and other means.
HoggingThe act of taking advantage of obese women with low self-esteem for sexual pleasure. Not to be confused with fat fetishists that are sexually attracted to obese women's bodies.
HostOften interchanged with "accom", the person/place that provides space for play.
Hot WifeWoman looking to have sex with a man other than her husband, but with his knowledge. He is sometimes watches.
HPHall Pass. Person has permission from their significant other to play alone without them.
HSVHerpes Simplex Virus. Sexually transmitted disease.
HWPHeight and Weight Proportional
ISOIs Seeking Out. In Search Of.
JizzSlang for male ejaculate.
K9Sexual position where the receiver is on hand and knees, and their partner enters from behind them. Also known as doggie style.
Landing stripPubic hair is trimmed and shaved to create a straight, narrow line. Also called a mohawk.
LDHLow Dollar Hooker.
LFKLight French Kissing.
LTRLong Term Relationship
MamasanAn authoritative woman of in an Asian brothel or nightclub.
MBCMarried Black Couple
MFMA threesome with two males and one female.
MFPMeet For Pleasure. Sexual meeting without personal interaction.
MG or M&GMeet and Greet. Gathering often held at a public location for swingers to meet new people. Rarely is there on-premise play.
MILFMother I'd Like to Fuck. Mid-life or older woman that is very attractive.
MishMissionary sex position. The partners are face to face, with one laying on their back and their partner enters from between their legs.
MoresomeSexual relations involving four or more people.
MSOGMultiple Shots On Goal. Ability to ejaculate multiple times in one session.
Muff DivingSlang for cunnilingus.
Multiple bell ringingMulti-orgasmic
MWCMarried White Couple
No Holes BarredA variation on "No Holds Barred", any orifice of the person is available to sexual use.
NSNon-smoking
NSANo Strings Attached. Common abbreviation for persons looking for sex without a relationship.
NSFWNot Safe For Work
NutRefers to the testicle(s) and often used to indicate ejaculation (Nutted, bust a nut)
Off PremiseSocial places for meeting up, but sexual relations are not permitted at the location.
On PremiseSocial places where sexual relations can occur at the location.
ONSOne Night Stand
OreoThreesome with a girl between two guys, usually with double penetration.
P2PPenis to Pussy. Penis to Penis. Pussy to Pussy. Pay to Play (Prostitution).
PansexualSexual attraction toward any gender identity/biology.
PassableUsually in reference to cross-dressers, where they can reasonably resemble the opposite gender.
PAWGPhat Assed White Girl. Usually a woman with slim frame, but large hips and buttocks.
Pearl NecklaceMale ejaculate around the neck and chest area of a sexual partner.
PeggingUse of a dildo for anal stimulation of a partner.
Pillow PrincessA woman that receives sexual gratification, typically oral, and does not reciprocate at all.
PNPParty and Play. Whether in a club or private residence, an opportunity to drink and have sex.
PolyamoryAn intimate relationship with multiple, consenting partners.
Prince AlbertSometimes abbreviated as "PA". Pierced head of a penis.
PSPussy Slide. Vulva rubbed against a penis, usually length-wise on the underside with no penetration.
PSEPorn Star Experience
QOSQueen of Spades. Usually white women wanting sex only with black men.
RaincoatCondom
RawAnother term for Bareback. Sex without a condom.
RCAReverse Cowgirl Anal
RCGCow Girl sexual position with girl on top facing away
Red WingsThe marks left on the face of a person performing cunnilingus
RimmingLicking the anus. Also known as anilingus.
RPGRole Playing Game
RRReciprocation Required.
RussianPenis rubbed between breasts. (Titty fuck)
Safe WordA code word agreed in advance for BDSM play, letting the partner know there is a problem and to stop activities.
Same Room SwapUsually full swap, but in the same room.
SBFSingle Black Female
SBMSingle Black Male
ScatSex involving fecal matter.
ShemaleMan that has developed breasts through surgery or use of hormones, but still has penis and testicles.
ShibariBondage with ropes.
Sloppy SecondsIntercourse with a vagina containing another man's ejaculate.
SLSSwingLifeStyle web-site.
SlutSexually promiscuous person with multiple partners and high sexual drive. Sometimes interchanged with more derogatory "Whore" (prostitute).
SmegmaA residue substance that builds up under the foreskin of a penis or within the folds of a vulva. Tends to have a strong unpleasant smell and taste. Also called "cheese".
Snow BunnyWhite woman that prefers and maintains relations with black men.
Soft SwapCouples that practice same room experiences usually up through oral sex with swapped partners, but intercourse only with their own partner.
SOMFSat/sit On My Face
SPService Provider.
Spinnerpetite, skinny girl
SpunkSlang for male ejaculate.
SquirtingA form of female ejaculate, where she releases a large volume of liquid during orgasm. There is much controversy about the source of the liquid.
SRDPSame Room Different Partner
SRSPSame Room Same Partner.
SSBBWSuper-Sized Big Beautiful Woman
STBSluts To Bang.
Shake The Bed.
STDSexually Transmitted Disease.
STR8Straight
SubSubmissive partner in Domination.
SWStreet Walker. Hooker.
SwapSexually speaking, the sharing of sexual partners. This is often partner for partner, like wife-swapping.
SWFSingle White Female
SWMSingle White Male
SybianMasturbation device designed for women to use cowgirl style.
TeabagTesticles dipped into partner's mouth.
TGTransgender. Person who's gender identity does not match their genetic gender.
TopPerson in the dominant role in a dominant relationship. Person performing the sexual act in a same gender relations.
TrannyA transgender or transsexual person.
TSTransexual. Person desiring to be the opposite gender as they are genetically.
TVTransvestite. Person that dresses as the opposite sex.
TwinkSlang for a very young gay male. Often slim with very little body hair. Sometimes used to describe a very young female, in reference to relations with older men.
UnicornSingle woman included in a couple's sexual relations.
VanillaNon-lifestyle people. Similar to civilians or muggles.
VGLVery Good Looking
VibratorElectronic sex toy that vibrates and is often shaped as a dildo for insertion or other shapes for surface contact.
VoyeurPerson that likes to watch other people naked and/or engaging in sex.
Water SportsThe act of urinating on partners as part of sexual activities. Also known as "Golden Showers".
WHWell Hung. Generally used to describe a large penis.
WHPWeight and Height Proportional. (Same as HWP)
WrappedSex with a condom.
WSWater Sports. urination in sexual activities.
WSWWhite Street Walker
YMMVYour Mileage May Vary. Experience changes with each recipient/partner.
YOLOYou Only Live Once. Generally will try anything.
TamakeriBDSM fetish where a man's testicles are abused.

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