Lifestyle Definitions

The following terms and definitions are common in the swing lifestyle. Naturally, some of these lifestyle definitions will overlap into personals and other unrelated areas and some may have completely different meanings.

69Just like the number suggest, the two people are lying with their heads lined up with their partners genitals for oral stimulation.
420Code for Marijuana use. Often used as "420 friendly".
ABSAdult Book Store
AFFAdult Friend Finder web-site.
AIDSAcquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome. Caused by HIV.
airtightAll orifices filled at the same - mouth, vagina and anus.
ArseWestern European slang for the buttocks.
ASPAdult Service Provider
ATFAll Time Favorite
ATMAss To Mouth. Transferring penis from anal penetration to oral.
Aunt FloCommon reference for a woman's period.
Bare BackSex without a condom.
BBBJBare Back Blow Job. Fellatio without a condom.
BBCBig Black Cock.
BBFSBare Back Full Swap/Service
BBWBig Beautiful Woman. Usually very large, well endowed woman.
BCDBehind Closed Doors
BDSMBondage, Discipline, Sex and Masochism.
BFBoy Friend
BiBisexual. Person that enjoys sex with members of their own and opposite gender.
Bi-CuriousSomeone that is interested or open to same gender sexual contact.
BJBlow Job
BLSBall Licking and Sucking
BottomPerson in the submissive role in a dominant relationship. Person receiving the sexual act in a same gender relations.
BukkakeFetish where multiple men ejaculate onto a single recipient.
BWCBig White Cock
CBJCovered (condom) Blow Job
CDCross Dresser
CGCow Girl sexual position with girl on top face to face
CIMCum In Mouth
CISSomeone whose sexual identity matches their gender at birth. (Not bi, gay or transgender)
CleanSomeone that is drug and disease free.
CMDCarpet Matches Drapes. Color of pubic hair is same as hair on head. Indicates natural hair color.
CougarAn older woman that seeks sex with much younger men.
Cream pieEjaculation inside the vagina or other orifice, without use of a condom.
CTSCamelToe Slide. The act of rubbing a woman's labia against a penis without penetration.
CumSlang for male ejaculate.
Slang for natural vaginal lubrication.
CummingReaching orgasm
CunnilingusOral sex perfomed on a female's genitals.
DATYDining At The Y. Cunnilingus.
DDFDrug and Disease Free.
DDGDrop Dead Gorgeous
Deep ThroatOrally taking a penis such that it enters the recipient's throat.
DFKDeep French Kissing
DIYDo It Yourself. Masturbation.
DomDominant, sometimes specific to male.
DommeFemale Dominant.
DPDouble Penetration. Two penises in the same person, usually one in the vagina and one anal at the same time.
DSDoggie Style. Sexual position where the receiver is on hands and knees like a dog.
DTDeep Throat.
DTEDown To Earth
DTFDown To Fuck
DVPDouble Vaginal Penetration. Two penises in the same vagina at the same time.
EnglishSpanked or masochism
ExhibitionistPerson that likes to be watched naked and/or having sex.
FacialMale ejaculate on the face of a sexual partner.
FetishStrong desire for a certain body part, most commonly foot.
FFM / FMFA threesome with two females and one male.
FSFull Service. Full Swap.
Full SwapCouples that allow full sex, including intercourse, with swapped partners.
FWBFriends with Benefits
GangbangSexual intercourse with multiple partners in one session. Typically multiple men to one woman.
GBFGay Black Female
GBMGay Black Male
GFEGirl Friend Experience
GGGonnorreia girl. Someone that carries sexually transmitted disease.
GloryholeHole in the wall between booths or rooms, meant for having sexual relations through the hole.
GreekAnal sex
GSGolden Shower. urination in sexual activities.
GSMG-Spot Massage
GWFGay White Female
GWMGay White Male
HIVHuman Immunodeficiency Virus. Transferable through sex and other means.
Hot WifeWoman looking to have sex with a man other than her husband, but with his knowledge. He is sometimes watches.
HPHall Pass. Person has permission from their significant other to play alone without them.
HSVHerpes Simplex Virus. Sexually transmitted disease.
HWPHeight and Weight Proportional
ISOIs Seeking Out. In Search Of.
JizzSlang for male ejaculate.
Landing stripPubic hair is trimmed and shaved to create a straight, narrow line. Also called a mohawk.
LDHLow Dollar Hooker.
LFKLight French Kissing.
LTRLong Term Relationship
MBCMarried Black Couple
MFMA threesome with two males and one female.
MFPMeet For Pleasure. Sexual meeting without personal interaction.
MG or M&GMeet and Greet. Gathering often held at a public location for swingers to meet new people. Rarely is there on-premise play.
MILFMother I'd Like to Fuck. Mid-life or older woman that is very attractive.
MishMissionary sex position.
MoresomeSexual relations involving four or more people.
MSOGMultiple Shots On Goal. Ability to ejaculate multiple times in one session.
Muff DivingSlang for cunnilingus.
Multiple bell ringingMulti-orgasmic
MWCMarried White Couple
No Holes BarredA variation on "No Holds Barred", any orifice of the person is available to sexual use.
NSANo Strings Attached. Common abbreviation for persons looking for sex without a relationship.
NSFWNot Safe For Work
Off PremiseSocial places for meeting up, but sexual relations are not permitted at the location.
On PremiseSocial places where sexual relations can occur at the location.
ONSOne Night Stand
OreoThreesome with a girl between two guys, usually with double penetration.
PansexualSexual attraction toward any gender identity/biology.
Pearl NecklaceMale ejaculate around the neck and chest area of a sexual partner.
PeggingUse of a dildo for anal stimulation of a partner.
PNPParty and Play. Whether in a club or private residence, an opportunity to drink and have sex.
PolyamoryAn intimate relationship with multiple, consenting partners.
PSPussy Slide. Vulva rubbed against a penis, usually length-wise on the underside with no penetration.
PSEPorn Star Experience
QOSQueen of Spades. Usually white women wanting sex only with black men.
RCAReverse Cowgirl Anal
RCGCow Girl sexual position with girl on top facing away
RimmingLicking the anus
RPGRole Playing Game
RussianPenis rubbed between breasts. (Titty fuck)
Same Room SwapUsually full swap, but in the same room.
SBFSingle Black Female
SBMSingle Black Male
ScatSex involving fecal matter.
ShemaleMan that has developed breasts through surgery or use of hormones, but still has penis and testicles.
ShibariBondage with ropes.
Sloppy SecondsIntercourse with a vagina containing another man's ejaculate.
SLSSwingLifeStyle web-site.
SlutSexually promiscuous person with multiple partners and high sexual drive.
Snow BunnyWhite woman that prefers and maintains relations with black men.
Soft SwapCouples that practice same room experiences usually up through oral sex with swapped partners, but intercourse only with their own partner.
SOMFSat/sit On My Face
SPService Provider.
Spinnerpetite, skinny girl
SpunkSlang for male ejaculate.
SRDPSame Room Different Partner
SRSPSame Room Same Partner.
SSBBWSuper-Sized Big Beautiful Woman
STBSluts To Bang.
Shake The Bed.
STDSexually Transmitted Disease.
SubSubmissive partner in Domination.
SWStreet Walker. Hooker.
SWFSingle White Female
SWMSingle White Male
SybianMasturbation device designed for women to use cowgirl style.
TeabagTesticles dipped into partner's mouth.
TGTransgender. Person who's gender identity does not match their genetic gender.
TopPerson in the dominant role in a dominant relationship. Person performing the sexual act in a same gender relations.
TSTransexual. Person desiring to be the opposite gender as they are genetically.
TVTransvestite. Person that dresses as the opposite sex.
UnicornSingle woman included in a couple's sexual relations.
VanillaNon-lifestyle people. Similar to civilians or muggles.
VGLVery Good Looking
VoyeurPerson that likes to watch other people naked and/or engaging in sex.
WHPWeight and Height Proportional. (Same as HWP)
WrappedSex with a condom.
WSWater Sports. urination in sexual activities.
WSWWhite Street Walker
YMMVYour Mileage May Vary. Experience changes with each recipient/partner.
YOLOYou Only Live Once. Generally will try anything.

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